courtesy of Sally Anderson Bruce |
—By
Debra Vey Voda-Hamilton, Esq.- Mediator
A
recent court decision in New York, Travis v. Murray, recognized the human
animal bond in a more tangible way than ever before. While reviewing a conflict over a pet in a divorce
proceeding it discussed the value of that pet to the divorcing spouses.
In
Travis v. Murray, Judge Matthew Cooper found that the argument before the court,
involving two spouses battling over a dog they once possessed and raised
together, couldn’t be held, “to a strict
property
analysis.” Judge Cooper did not find that the family pet was a human being, “but
[it]is decidedly more than a piece of property marital or otherwise.” Judge Cooper stopped short of giving
the pet a higher status than the family Escalade or Ferrari.
Shannon
Travis and Trisha Murray were a married couple that acquired Joey, a miniature
dachshund, in happier times and before they were married. It is clear that the
married couple, embroiled
in this litigation, felt Joey was very important to them for different reasons. If you are a married or unmarried couple
with pets you may want to read the decision. Judge Cooper wrote a lovely
17-page decision you can view at:
http://www.courts.state.ny.us/reporter/3dseries/2013/2013_23405.htm
In
Travis v. Murray, Judge Cooper talked about how one-time “happy spouses” who
are now divorcing ask the courts, “to decide what happens to the pet that each
of the parties still loves and each of them still want,” in their lives. He did a masterful job recognizing the
emotions involved in this case. He
also spoke of limitations placed upon the court when asked to make decisions of
this kind by the litigants.
Judge
Cooper, recognizing the dilemma he and the ex’s found themselves in, ordered a
hearing on the topic of, “who gets the dog?’” He then limited the plaintiff and respondent’s use of this
court ordered hearing to deciding the issue of sole custody. The
court would entertain no joint custody or visitation agreements. He also refrained
from using the best interest standard; rather he ordered the use of the Raymond
v. Lachmann standard (264 AD2d 340 [1st Dept 1999]) of, “best for
all concerned.”
Having
a divorce court order a hearing on, “who gets the dog,” was a groundbreaking decision.
It
was
also a heartbreaking decision, because in the hearing one ex-spouse loses all
ownership rights to their beloved pet.
It makes clear the position of most courts in the land. Though the family pet is no longer a chair,
the court is not ready to support a non-property shared custody or visitation
agreement for an animal. Although the
court recognized both exes’ loved and felt responsible for the pet as a family
member, it rejected joint custody.
It required the complainants to decide who would get sole possession of
the animal, just as they do for a chair, car or painting.
In
Travis v. Murray, sole custody was given to Murray even before the hearing was
conducted. No additional agreements
were entered into that would keep all parties abreast of the dog’s welfare. The non-custodial Travis does not, at
this time, have
the opportunity to see Joey, offer to help with
medical
expenses or take over the care of Joey if needed. Neither the court nor the divorce attorneys thought about
putting a mechanism in place to alert the alternate pet parent if the
possessing parent or pet fall on hard times and re-homing is needed. These and other nightmares have been the
experiences of pet owning ex-partners.
If
you are currently in a relationship with a pet there are 4 easy steps you can
take to assure you are ready for the care of your pet short and long-term post
relationship.
The
4 steps are easy to remember: PETS
P -
Pre/Post Pet acquisition agreement.
People
draw up agreements when money or property are involved. Why not create a similar agreement when
a beloved pet is at the crux of the conflict. You can include a visitation
schedule, a right of first refusal if one party can no longer care for the pet
and a stipulation for shared health information.
E –
Engage in the pet conversation immediately upon acquiring the pet. This is key. It will be in everyone’s
best interest, especially the pets.
T –
Take your time addressing the future custody of your pet. Make sure you
consider everyone’s time, cost and availability to care for the pet.
S -
Solve for what is best for all concerned.
Put
follow up mechanisms in place that will enable the parties to truly act in the,
“best for all concerned.”
For
the pets in your relationship, follow these 4 Easy Steps – PETS. They provide for the pet’s future
security and the people’s future peace of mind.
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